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Give you

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January 5, 2023
a brush illustration about motherhood
In English when someone wants to give you something, you say: Take this, you are taking it from me. In Cantonese, we say: Bei nei, meaning give you, from me to you, I am giving this to you

Bei nei, give you

My mom says in Cantonese

Bei nei, give you

Orange, vitamins, new clothes, bowlful of yummy goodness by your door steps

Text, letters, money orders, phone call to make sure you and tomorrow are fed

What to say to a mother

Whose love is heavier than the world

Whose love sometimes weighs you down more than it lifts you up


She has given you you and expects you to give

yourself in return

She loves the world

until there’s nothing left to love

but herself

You can stop now. I give you back.

Go on, walk away and see

the world. Free like a bird

Be the bird

I will be okay

Believe me

She loves the world until there’s nothing left to love but herself

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